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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-01 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2979 ]


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BJ technique

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
How do you give a good blowjob?

Re: BJ technique

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
don't

they're not deserving of it and you shouldn't degrade yourself like that

Re: BJ technique

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 10:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Lol

Re: BJ technique

(Anonymous) 2015-03-02 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
Christ, you are just AWFUL at this.
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Re: BJ technique

[personal profile] ill_omened 2015-03-01 10:25 pm (UTC)(link)
What level of experience are we talking here, like what's the baseline skill you're working from?

Re: BJ technique

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Enthusiastic beginner.

Re: BJ technique

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Depends a lot on the guy. Good baseline to work with: don't assume anyone likes biting, don't try to deep throat right out of the gate, ask before doing anything with balls/ass, make sure the penis having person knows to give you encouragement/guidelines, and lube helps.

Re: BJ technique

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Have your partner give feedback and listen. Use your hand to grip the base so you don't have to deep throat (unless you want to) and can focus on the the sensitive parts near the tip. Don't forget the underside, just at the base of the policeman's helmet. *winkwink*

NO TEETH. And forget using ice or peppermints or any of that weird shit, they're overrated and also a choking hazard.

Re: BJ technique

[personal profile] solticisekf 2015-03-02 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
A policeman's helmet? haha, nice.

Re: BJ technique

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-03-01 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
The same way you're good at ...any type of sexual activity. You listen to how your partner is responding, vary your technique and find out what works, and you have fun while you're at it.

There's no formula for good oral sex, despite what the internet may tell you. Everyone likes something different, so there's no real "do this".

Adding my own BJ question!

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel embarrassed asking this. But I'm gonna go ahead and do it. Is it ok not to have constant suction going on? I sometimes find it hard to keep suction, and I don't know if I should work on that.

Re: Adding my own BJ question!

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-03-01 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't really need to actually suck anything, unless that's what your partner is into. Most of the time just the movement of lips and tongue is more than good enough.

Re: Adding my own BJ question!

(Anonymous) 2015-03-02 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
My partner seems to like it. I will keep that in mind though, thank you.

Re: BJ technique

[personal profile] cbrachyrhynchos 2015-03-02 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
Listen to your partner.

Re: BJ technique

(Anonymous) 2015-03-02 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
In general, the head is the most sensitive part, so start your focus there. After that, play. Experiment. Do what you feel comfortable trying, and see if they like it.

Do one thing for a while, then switch it up. Listen (/feel/watch) their response to gauge whether they like it. I love it when my partner tells me what they like, what to do to please them, so I always tell them to talk to me. It's not getting ordered around, it's getting them to literally tell me what they like when i do it. It's a great, quick way to start learning what they like, when it's a new partner.

And have fun. ;) If you're into it, they're more likely to be.