[ SECRET POST #2987 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2987 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Try this again: What would you do FS?

[(Anonymous)]

Mourn for the life that never was, be glad you escaped a terrible, terrible parent.

Re: Try this again: What would you do FS?

[(Anonymous)]

+1

This will take a long time to work through, and your anger is completely justified. But being angry is not fun, and becoming bitter will eat at your soul.

Yell, seethe, write, punch punching bags, make art--do whatever helps you validate yourself and this tremendous hurt. But also soothe yourself, speak to a kind listener (therapist, friend, both), and set yourself on a path that can eventually lead to healing and forgiveness.

I am so sorry this happened to you. It was this parent's fault that you suffered so much. Best of luck and love from this anon.

Re: Try this again: What would you do FS?

[(Anonymous)]

OP

Thanks. I was hoping it would be a short-term thing I could just bull my way through (like I do with most sucky things). I only found all of this out today, so I'm kind of catching waves at the moment. I'll be OK, then another wave of anger will strike, then I'll be OK again. Rinse, lather, repeat. But, yeah, I have to look long-term, at what has happened, and what will happen. And what SHOULD happen.

...I have no idea what the other bio parent is thinking right now. They stayed a long, long, long, time, and I said for years we should try and make a prison break. Looks like the reason the bio parent made our lives such a prison was because they hated us so much for not being the other family. Even though we were the lawful, legal, family. BECAUSE we were the lawful, legal family, the bio parent hated us.

That just sucks, you know?