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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-10 07:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2988 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2988 ⌋

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Re: Transcript

(Anonymous) 2015-03-12 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
> Relationships do *not* have to last forever to be good or important.

I don't know. if it ends in a way you don't want (which it frequently does) it can retroactively poison all the time you had together. Like "why did I put all that energy into someone who was just going to screw me."

I think if it were a good relationship, it wouldn't have ended. You end them BECAUSE they're bad.
esteefee: chibi Rodney kissing John on the head with a little red heart (crankychibijohn)

Re: Transcript

[personal profile] esteefee 2015-03-12 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
Frequently? There are so very many ways relationships end. You've never had a friendship drift apart? Or had your interests diverge (e.g., when my close friend got pregnant and suddenly fell into the pit of motherhood). Have you ever used a small disagreement as a pretext for just dropping out of communication?

My point is: people outside the relationship aren't in the position to judge whether the relationship was valid or not. OP called the fandom friendship "bullshit." Well, who is OP to say? We don't actually know why or how that friendship ended, or even if it really did. Only the people in the relationship can say whether they found it meaningful or good for them, even if it did eventually end.

This whole judging of relationships thing is just weird to me, is all I'm saying. I really don't know what goes on between people. Only they do.