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fandomsecrets2015-03-20 07:02 pm
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[ SECRET POST #2998 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2998 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Re: How do you fix awkward?
(Anonymous) 2015-03-21 02:40 am (UTC)(link)People like it when you listen to them and ask about their opinions on stuff and remember little details like something they mentioned last time. And most people will readily offer their opinions when asked - look at general comments, it's full of people replying to stuff.
That way it keeps the focus on them, and off of you, and you'll start being less conscious of yourself, and less awkward. And that's basically what small-talk is - asking people little casual questions.
Also, being smiley and optimistic helps, too. Like turning the convo round to the positive side of things. So people start to associate warm fuzzy feelings with you.
What belladonnatook mentioned up there- most people actually don't care or notice that much. Not every convo is life-or-death (though it can be hard when you have anxiety and your brain's constantly telling you that lol.)
(I'm pretty awkward as well but I'm slowly starting to get over it.)