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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-23 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3001 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3001 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Red Dwarf]


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03.
[Tim Gutterson, Justified]


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[Obscurus Lupa; Channel Awesome]


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[Joseph Gordon-Levitt]


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[Blackadder]


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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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[Babylon 5]


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[Pacific Rim]


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[Diana Gabaldon, Outlander series]


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[L.A. Confidential]


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[Koe no Katachi]


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[Cold Case]


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[Amanda Palmer & Neil Gaiman]


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[Sirens]


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[Neighbours]


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[Sleepy Hollow]


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[Neil Gaiman & Amanda Palmer]


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19.
[Garbage - Only happy when it rains]


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20.
[Mary Portas, aka "Mary, Queen of Shops"]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 088 secrets from Secret Submission Post #429.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] a_potato 2015-03-23 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
It's pretty normal to fantasize, and most people have some notion of the "perfect partner." It's not necessarily wrong or bad, so long as the person recognizes that it's unrealistic and doesn't use it as an excuse to hold others to impossible standards.

As long as she's treating her husband well, I don't see why it would be a problem.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-23 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
mte.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-23 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree

I also suspect that in secrets like this "I feel so sorry for her husband" is just a pale excuse to bag on them and be catty to someone who they think writes bad fiction and has fantasies.

Like a girl in high school going "eww I feel so bad for her boyfriend cause she's so fat" or whatever.

DA

(Anonymous) 2015-03-24 04:09 am (UTC)(link)
Totally agree, but I'd also add that it rings like someone who's never been in a functional longterm relationship. Ain' nothin' wrong with a fantasy. My husband loves the fact that I have celeb and character crushes, as long as he reaps the benefit of my getting hot over them. And vice versa.