[ SECRET POST #3002 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3002 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Transformers: More than Meets the Eye/Transformers: Robots in Disguise]


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[Gary Barlow, Take That]


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[Sherlock Holmes]


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[Criminal Minds/Law and Order: SVU]


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[Gekkan shoujo Nozaki-kun]


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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer (episode: Prom Night)]


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[Breaking Bad]


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[Night Shift]


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[Neil Patrick Harris, Stephen Fry, Neil Gaiman, Stephen Colbert]


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[clockwise from bottom left: Dinosaur Comics, Romantically Apocalyptic, Homestuck, Nedroid, Sfeer Theory, Bite Me!]


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[Dragon Age]









Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 066 secrets from Secret Submission Post #429.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

Will a guy always cheat on their girlfriends at the first opportunity that presents itself? I don't mean this in the spirit of misandry - I've just... not had any good experiences with boyfriends.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

"I don't mean this in the spirit of misandry" ARE YOU SURE? Are you really sure you didn't ask this just to start wank.

Because no, they don't. No more than a woman will cheat on her guy at the first opportunity (no matter what Maury would have you believe).

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

It manages to imply every woman who is in a relationship a pushover who is willing to be cheated on by her boyfriend since every guy is a cheater, so it wades right into misogyny too. Whoop!

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know why you're asking this. You know the answer is obviously "No." Of course not all guys cheat on their girlfriends.

I'm sorry you've had bad experiences, though. Maybe you have a particular "type" of guy you're attracted to that has a predilection to be unfaithful? That's my best guess.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

You're probably right, OP.

Unfortunately, when your experience is a repetitive series of events, it's really difficult to start thinking of it as an isolated thing.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT - Only if you ignore the common denominator = the person being cheated on. It sounds terrible, I know, but boyfriends aren't a thing that happens randomly to a person. You don't walk down the street minding your own business and then SHAZAAAAM! cheating boyfriend. You meet a guy who seems nice to you and you both consent to developing a relationship. Only, as we all know, sometimes people make poor choices or they're not the best judges of character and things don't end well.

One bad relationship is understandable. Two, yeah, shit happens. But if every single relationship you end up in is bad, it's time to step back and figure out what the hell is going on. I promise you it won't be a weird mystery of the universe or some unexplained plague of shitty boyfriends that has no connection to you. It's just that most people find it very uncomfortable and frustrating to admit that they have some responsibility in the matter.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[raspberryrain]

Wow, victim-blaming much?

Re: Questions you've never asked

[quirkytizzy]

Truth.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

No.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

No. Don't mistake your bad experiences as being representative of how all men behave, you'll get a really bitter and skewed perspective that way.

If you're finding yourself stuck in a negative pattern when it comes to dating, it might be time to take a hard look at why that happens and your own role in that. You're not responsible for your partner cheating, of course, but it's a bit odd if all your boyfriends are unfaithful. You might be unconsciously ignoring red flags.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

Oh absolutely! One of the secrets you'll learn later in life is that literally every husband is cheating on literally every wife, and every wife has learned that she'd better put up with it if they want to keep up the pretense of happy marriage because every single man on earth is the same skeevy horndog that will hump anything with a pulse at the first opportunity. The very first! And every opportunity thereafter!

Or, you know, no.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[quirkytizzy]

Hee hee. This cracked me up.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[cbrachyrhynchos]

"That's what god made sailors for!"

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

Yes.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[herpymcderp]

NOPE.

No.

Noooo.

God damn. Men are individuals. Some individuals suck. That is all.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

Wow, if this is a legit question then the responses you're getting are HORRIBLE. idg why people are being such jerks about it :|

But anyway, no they won't.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

no, this is not a legit question, and OP deserves the sarcastic responses on the off chance that she isn't a troll.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[(Anonymous)]

No they cheat when they are dicks or when they are treated badly or feel trapped by the relationship. Some times they cheat hoping to get caught because they are cowards and cant man up to end it.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[cbrachyrhynchos]

No.

Re: Questions you've never asked

[kallanda_lee]

No, they don't. That being said, a very large percentage of relationships will have cheating from either side at some point;

Re: Questions you've never asked

[ibbity]

GOOD guys, no. However. If you date one cheater, that's bad luck. If you date two cheaters, that's coincidence. If you date ALL cheaters, it may be time to take a break from dating for a while and ask yourself "What is it about me that attracts cheaters so much?"

Re: Questions you've never asked

[belladonna_took]

No. Although, the few guys I know who share that attitude on cheating are the ones who pick the wrong women and get cheated on.

Yes, IF

[chardmonster]

IF he's the type to cheat. Bad people will treat you badly, and eventually that will out no matter how much they pretend to be decent.

This is a good thing. Finding out he's a cheater means you're going to drop him and not waste any more time on him, if you're the one to find out. Right? Don't stay with a cheater.

When people betray you it's better to know.

Re: Yes, IF

[(Anonymous)]

Like, yo, mad respect, Chard, but if the question is "Will men always cheat on you", and your answer is "The ones who will cheat on you will always cheat on you", welll... I mean, respect, that's some gnomic shit, but maybe not the most insightful, you know what I mean?

Re: Questions you've never asked

[otakugal15]

No. Cause most boyfriends aren't horn dogs like that. Despite what movies and some misandrists like to say, it's just all true.

Also, a lot of it comes down to knowing your partner.