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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-25 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #3003 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3003 ⌋

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Re: "I need you more than you need me."

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-03-26 09:42 am (UTC)(link)
While I agree that the amount of investment or attention might never seem enough for the person, that doesn't mean you can't give them any.

Even just a call once a week to say: "hey, I'm thinking of you, I hope you're well" can do wonders in the grand scheme of things (even if they might not even see it that way).

I must say I sort of resent the "friends" who disappeared altogether.

Re: "I need you more than you need me."

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-03-26 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I didn't mean to imply that you shouldn't keep contact with someone who is depressed. In fact, you absolutely should, because depressed people deserve support.

I just meant that you shouldn't feel pressured to be the only means of support or to give more attention than you can afford, because the reality of depression is that that won't be enough no matter what you do.