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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-27 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #3005 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3005 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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23. [ WARNING for ableism ]
















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(Anonymous) 2015-03-27 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh look, a bunch of hostile people are denying ableism exists in fandom.

Next they'll wonder why no disabled people feel up to debating it.

Here's a clue: because we're sick of living with ableism every day, many of us are struggling to manage to live at all, and this blatant denial is triggering enough in itself.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-27 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

I'm not denying it exists? I'd like to know some examples of it so I can know what I'm not noticing.

If people are denying it exists, wouldn't you provide examples of it happening to prove them wrong? I don't understand.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-27 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow. OP asked for examples to LEARN from. And then you act all bitchy about it saying they are DENYING ABLEISM.

Boy. I bet OP learned a lot today! Mostly that you are an asshole.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
+1

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
mte

(Anonymous) 2015-03-27 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Hahahahaha I bet you're not even really disabled and are just looking to start wank. Either that or you have some sort of learning disorder and that's why you didn't fucking read AYRT's comment.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
DA

shut the fuck up, you're a shitty person

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
stop pretending to be other people, AIRT

oh wait is that your disability? you have MPD?

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Anyone else get the feeling this was the first anon, and is still trying too hard to start the wank?

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
I'm the OP of the thread that asked for clarification and it wasn't me :(

I wasn't trying to start wank, I swear.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
FWIW, I know you weren't. Unfortunately people took what you asked as an affront.

I mean, I have disabilities and while I've noticed ableism at the hands of some fans, it's mostly stuff like the use of the R-word, and even that one was a looong time ago.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
saying "you must have a learning disability is what it is haha" is pretty shitty, not sure how you can spin that as otherwise. i never defended the first anon and seeing as I think they're full of shit, i'm probably not going to...

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
Shut up. I'm an actual PWD. You're just a TAB wannabe who is in for a reality check, should you ever become truly disabled.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
Er, frankly, I see more ableism on the news and non-fandom blogs than I do in fandom. Old school fandom in particular is good about being cool with things, whether it be a learning disability, mental illness, chronic pain and/or exhaustion, mobility issues, or the joke that is public support for the disabled.

Most of the actual calling-out of ableism I see on Tumblr (and how I miss LJ sometimes) is poorly aimed, and telling us we have dynamics rather than disorders, or that we shouldn't call ourselves crazy or lame. It avoids or ignores the real issues in favor of criticizing us for not being noble martyr stereotypes.

For the record, I'm legally disabled, with both mental and physical issues, including lifelong chronic pain. In fact, my pain levels are so high that I once broke my spine, thought I'd pulled a muscle, and walked away. As a result of that stunt, I now walk with a cane. I get this shit. Equally, I know when I'm being defended, and when I'm being spoken down to.

By the way, most disabled people I know have really gallows senses of humor about it. We joke about what to do with our corpses, FFS. We're not delicate little flowers, about to disintegrate to the wind. You need a pretty tough hide to wake up like this day in and day out. If we don't comment, it's not due to weakness. It's because the issue isn't worth our energy.

And with that, I am bowing out of this discussion.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
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insanenoodlyguy: (Heavy)

PERHAPS YOU WOULD HAVE BETTER LUCK

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2015-03-28 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
IF YOU WERE REAL MEN! INSTEAD THERE ARE NO MEN HERE. THERE ARE ALSO NO WOMEN BEING HERE. ONLY TINY WEAK BABIES! YOUR WEAKNESS I SHOULD BE MENTIONING IS INDEPENDENT OF ANY FLAWS IN PHYSICAL CONSTITUTION. CRY SOME MOARRRRRRRRR.
Edited 2015-03-28 01:31 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2015-03-28 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
What a whiny baby you are.