I sympathize. I find a lot of black guys attractive, but I don't know if I could ever date a black man because if I some day had a family, I'd be faced with mixed kids.

And it's not that I don't want mixed kids, but it's just that I feel like I'd be completely unprepared to deal with the racial issues they would face, both large to small (dealing with police, hair, etc.)

Note that I brought up black people specifically because I feel like here in the US, that's the one mix that would face the most issues.