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⌈ Secret Post #3011 ⌋

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(Transformers: War for Cybertron)

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[iZombie]

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[Amazingphil]

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[How to get away with murder/Scandal]

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[Russell Brand]

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[Hand of Fate]

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[Homestuck, The Nostalgia Critic, Channel Awesome]

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(An American Tail)

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[Mark Steel]

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[Once Upon a Time]

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[X-Files, The Lone Gunmen]

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[Divergent series]

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[One Piece]

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[Criminal Minds: Derek Morgan]

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[Bad Suns: Salt music video]

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[Accuracy of Death/Sweet Rain/Shinigami no seido]

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[One Piece]

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F!S, would you ever consider paying for sex? Maybe not now, but later? Or to satisfy a specific fetish? Would you? (if money and legality were now an issue?)

Er if money and legality were an issue, I would not. But I'm assuming you meant not an issue?

In which case, sure. With a consenting person of course.

Sorry, yes, I meant not!

No? Not because I'm against it morally - I'm in favor of it being legalized in my country for various reasons - but simply because I'm...well. Ace, I've no interest in sex.

However, if it option to talk with them was open [mainly 'cause I'm a nosy bastard], I might consider it.

As far as I understand some people do actually just go to a prostitute and...have a chat.

Re: Out of curiosity...

(Anonymous) - 2015-04-02 23:46 (UTC) - Expand

For myself, I think I might if I were ever single again. But,mostly out of curiosity really.

I've paid for phone sex. And been paid for it, one summer.

No, its far too easy to be a rapist entirely by accident when you pay for it. I literally couldn't live with myself.

Just consider? I already have considered. My answer stays no every time though, not enough interest.

If it was safe, and the other party wasn't coerced into the job in any way, then I wouldn't have a problem with it.

I treated myself to a ladyboy spanking session, after F!S's advice on paying for it. It was sooooo good. Thank you F!S. The only downside about being a woman and going to a place that provides sexual services, is that you might get asked if you want to work there as well as being a customer. Their employee discount offer was considerable, but in the end I declined.

I remember you asking! I'm happy it worked out for you!

herpymcderp - 2015-04-03 03:31 (UTC) - Expand

insanenoodlyguy - 2015-04-03 03:36 (UTC) - Expand

Sex, no. Finding a partner isn't something that's hard for me, but it's also not something I particularly feel a craving kind of need for.

However, I would totally consider paying for cuddling because generally touching and being touched is what I really get desperate about. Outside of family, it's not always easy to get that without it being a prelude to or after sex.

Also, I would probably pay for a scene. I'm too timid to approach the few people in the kink community I do know to introduce me into it, or even vouch for me, so hey if I had all the money bags I would take advantage of that.

If it were legal and I knew that the person doing it was totally and completely doing it of their own free will, yes. There are many things I would like to experience, but I don't think I'll ever be with a partner for real at this point in my life.

If it weren't a crime, yes. It would ruin my job prospects, so not while its illegal. And also not unless I knew with absolute certainty that the person I was paying was not being exploited in any way and genuinely wanted to be there.

Assuming it's legal, completely consensual, perfect utopian sex work etc. etc., then yeah probably? I've been thinking about this a bit, and like. The idea of sex makes me nervous, but it's also something I'd like to try, so I wouldn't mind paying for a sweet, attractive person to like, help me through it and want to make me happy? Idk if I'm expressing this right but there it is.

I know there are people who would laugh at this but I can't get into sex unless the other person loves me, and I'm not foolish enough to think sex workers are in love with their clients.

Yes, in theory, if it were legal and available. That said, I have some pretty crippling self-esteem issues, so I'm not sure if I could get past "this person doesn't want to have sex with me and would never have sex with me if I wasn't paying them." I think it would do more harm than good.

Nah. If you're just going to have sex for the sake of having sex, masturbation is way cheaper.

*shudder* HELL no. For me, sex is an extremely delicate, difficult operation. There is only one person I'm willing to go through the trouble for, and I'm married to him. I would never want to put a sex worker through that, even if I WERE paying them!

--Rogan

I've considered paying sex workers not to have sex with me. Just to let them get off their feet for a while, you know?

That aside, I don't think I would, personally. I don't think it's wrong and I don't have a problem with that career choice, but I don't think I would find it satisfying. I'd rather just masturbate if I really needed to get off.

Only for one thing

(do I need to say this is a warning?)

I think I'm too picky. Most days, it's all about the person, rather than the body. I just can't get into it if I don't have that trust connection. Not love, but trust is a must for me, and I don't trust that easy.

I'm not even going to bother going anon because I have no shame.

I've considered hiring an escort for social events (not sex), and actually found an agency that I would consider using. It's expensive, yes, but a few people in the social pages have written about having positive experiences. I'm sometimes invited to things I can bring a plus one to, and my friends mostly grew up outside of my family's social circle, so I wouldn't ask them.

I think it would be nice to have someone to even pretend to like going to the theatre with me, or even spend the weekend away and be introduced to my family, just for my nanna's sake. She's upset that I don't date and she worries about me being alone. Is it a bad lie if it makes someone I love happy?

I'm not sure if I could ever have sex with someone under those circumstances, because it brings the idea of consent into question, and that's a deal-breaker for me. I guess it's sort of a grey area, especially with escorts because they get paid the same amount whether they have sex or don't have sex.

(Anonymous) - 2015-04-03 18:14 (UTC) - Expand

belladonna_took - 2015-04-04 02:50 (UTC) - Expand

I don't have any moral objection to doing so, but honestly, at least where I'm at in my life right now, I can't see myself wanting to. It's hard to see it being in any way satisfying or good. It'd just make me sadder. I can't see something like that giving me anything I want out of a sexual relationship I guess.