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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-02 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #3011 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3011 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Transformers: War for Cybertron)


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[iZombie]


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[Amazingphil]


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[How to get away with murder/Scandal]


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[Russell Brand]


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[Hand of Fate]


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[Homestuck, The Nostalgia Critic, Channel Awesome]


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(An American Tail)


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[Mark Steel]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[X-Files, The Lone Gunmen]


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[Divergent series]


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[One Piece]


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[Criminal Minds: Derek Morgan]


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[Bad Suns: Salt music video]


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[Accuracy of Death/Sweet Rain/Shinigami no seido]


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[Steven Universe]


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[One Piece]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 023 secrets from Secret Submission Post #430.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Failure to launch

(Anonymous) 2015-04-03 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Don't really know what I can do about this

Yes you do. Men like this will crush your soul if you let them. Leave the adult baby and find a decent man.
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Re: Failure to launch

[personal profile] quirkytizzy 2015-04-03 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
It's harsh but this is also my recommendation. Men who "help around their parents house"or "pay a little rent" as a way of paying their way will often then assume all they have to do in a live in situation is "help around the house", instead of taking full responsibility like an adult should. I take it your beu is even doing that? This attitude bleeds into other areas of responsibility, too. If he does move out, you'll be dealing with someone whose life experience is that of an 18 year old and not someone nearly 30. Even if he's trying really hard, you'll still be dating someone much more immature than you.

If he won't step up and take adult responsibility now, how much do you think he'd do so even if he moved out tomorrow?