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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-02 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #3011 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3011 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Transformers: War for Cybertron)


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[iZombie]


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[Amazingphil]


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[How to get away with murder/Scandal]


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[Russell Brand]


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[Hand of Fate]


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[Homestuck, The Nostalgia Critic, Channel Awesome]


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(An American Tail)


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[Mark Steel]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[X-Files, The Lone Gunmen]


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[Divergent series]


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[One Piece]


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[Criminal Minds: Derek Morgan]


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[Bad Suns: Salt music video]


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[Accuracy of Death/Sweet Rain/Shinigami no seido]


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[Steven Universe]


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[One Piece]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 023 secrets from Secret Submission Post #430.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

Re: Failure to launch

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2015-04-03 04:50 am (UTC)(link)
I think you probably need to talk to him. Not tell him his life choices are wrong and he's going nowhere, because that's just going to make him defensive, but actually ask him where he sees himself in 5 years, or in 10 years.

If you both want very different things, isn't it better to know now?
It's not your job to "dislodge" him if he doesn't want what you want. It won't make either of you happy if there's no good compromise. Either he changes his whole life for you or you give up the future you want for him. That doesn't sound like a healthy relationship.

Idk. Feel free to ignore me. I usually give advice that nobody wants to hear. It's my gift.