[ SECRET POST #3014 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3014 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 130 secrets from Secret Submission Post #431.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

This is a lesbian separatist talking about fanfic: https://liberationcollective.wordpress.com/2013/03/30/lesbian-bdsm-part-1-lesbian-bdsm-in-fan-fiction/

Seriously, they're basically all like that. It's hilarious and sad at the same time.

[diet_poison]

holy shit, that's a pretentious post. :/

Overall the blog seems like your average TERF hangout.

[(Anonymous)]

Yep. Weird, hateful stuff for no clear reason. Honestly, though, I find the tiny, limited list of acceptable sexual desires in that article to be more funny than anything. One of those cases where stupidity is its own punishment, you know?

[diet_poison]

Is there actually a list? I must have missed it.

I'm assuming it doesn't include anything with dicks or dildos, or anything that involves submission.

[(Anonymous)]

No dicks, no dildos, no fisting, no kink... basically cunnilingus, a little fingering, and cuddling.

Her theory seems to be that this is what authentic female libido SHOULD look like, we just need to fix all these obviously malfunctioning women who fail to fit her theory.

[diet_poison]

oh wow.

let them be separatists all they want, but keep away from my sexuality, tyvm. patronizing jerks.

[(Anonymous)]

Sounds like this woman never actually got over her problems. She just found a new way to justify not actually facing them.

[(Anonymous)]

I have seen this narrative so many times, I really shouldn't be surprised by it anymore.

Here's how it goes:
-woman with issues gets involved in BDSM
-woman overcomes issues and finds she's no longer interested in BDSM
-woman decides that, because she had issues when she was involved with BDSM, BDSM is actually always bad all the time and only people with issues are ever involved in it

Also, as usual, there's a complete lack of acknowledgement of male submissives. But of course, that wouldn't fit in to the BDSM is a Symptom of the Patriarchy line.

[diet_poison]

Also, as usual, there's a complete lack of acknowledgement of male submissives. But of course, that wouldn't fit in to the BDSM is a Symptom of the Patriarchy line.

They also conveniently ignore female doms, which there by nature have to be in cases of lesbian!BDSM

or maybe they just handwave that off to women breaking free of the chains of oppression and flexing her muscles of power or something

[(Anonymous)]

Based on that article, it looks like they think female dommes are buying into the patriarchy and joining in on the oppression of their fellow women.

[diet_poison]

wow, so not only are they all "lesbians only allowed!" but they're going to police HOW exactly you are allowed to be a lesbian.

talk about open and welcoming...

[quirkytizzy]

It's so nice that she's allowing every woman the ability to define her own sexual experiences. I'm sure she's proud of the fact that she sees women as individuals in charge of their own sexual destinies, who are capable of making adult decisions.

/sarcasm

I'm almost offended at that drivel in the article - talk about one person trying to define something that is EXTREMELY complex and varied for all the women she claims to be standing up for. Yeeesh.

[diet_poison]

It's so, so, SO patronizing, isn't it? She basically says "I talked to these women who enjoy BDSM, and I wasn't able to make them see how they're wrong." She assumes any woman who likes it is supporting the patriarchy and hurting herself, even when they clearly enjoy it. She even states that BDSM is inherently harmful, which is such a slap in the face to any woman who has embraced it as part of making her own decisions about her sexuality.

Having a few woman decide what is best for all women isn't really better than having a few men decide that, tbqh. Radfems can take their condescending drivel and shove it.