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⌈ Secret Post #3015 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Puzzle & Dragons (Japanese Mobile Phone game)]

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[Thunderbirds]

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[Avenged Sevenfold]

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[Umineko no Naku Koro ni]

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(Donald Tusk, President Of The European Council)

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[The Hobbit]

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[Nicholas Lea]

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[Vocaloid]

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[Grimm/Angel]

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(the Tale of the Princess Kaguya)

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[Jimmy Carr and Sarah Millican]

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[The Phantom of the Opera]

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[How to get away with murder/Liza Weil]

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[Once Upon a Time]

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[Inazuma Eleven]

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(Aiden Turner in Poldark)

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[Star Trek: Into Darkness]

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[Nathan Fillion]

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[Harry Potter]

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[Sherlock]

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[MCU/The Avengers (film series)]

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[Gillian Anderson]

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Wha..?

I'm sorry to say, but feeling inadequate is all in your own head. As others have said, claiming that bisexuals will always "crave" the gender that their partner isn't is like saying that any man (or woman) you date will always "crave" other men/women. For me, personally, when I fall in love with someone, I fall in love with the person. What bisexuality means to me is that I don't care what genitalia someone has, or what their legal gender is. The physical attributes I'm attracted to are interesting/brightly colored eyes and long-fingered hands. Which can belong to any gender.

Just to blow your mind a little more, I am also polyamorous. However, just because I can have romantic feelings for more than one person at a time doesn't mean I do by default. Of the five relationships I've had, four of them have been.. *gasp* monogamous. I didn't feel I was missing out on the gender I wasn't dating OR that I "craved" an open relationship. I was fine and happily monogamous. In fact, my longest relationship, which lasted 15 years? HE cheated on ME.

Sorry, I get a little passionate about this because I'm tired of being painted with this brush that's not my color at all.

No actually, because they might crave something you legitimately can't provide. Think of someone who wants biological children and has a partner who is infertile. If they break up, sure, some people would judge them, but I think it's a natural enough inclination.

A strap-on/fleshlight cannot compare to the real thing.

Okay, that's fine to hear. But my definition of polyamorous is different from yours, as is my definition of bisexual. Just as you are an example of a faithful lover, I can provide examples of bisexuals who turned unfaithful because they craved cock/cunt because they identify as bisexual, not because they don't care about the genitals, but because they like both sets of genitals. I don't think this second group should be shunned -- honestly, I don't even think "infidelity" should be shunned. Regarding your partner of 15 years, I'm sorry to hear that they cheated on you, but perhaps monogamy just wasn't their thing? Just as polyamory's not my thing and I don't want a relationship with it.

but perhaps monogamy just wasn't their thing

No, it means they're a selfish asshole who lacks the dignity and self control to break up with a person before fucking someone else. If someone cheats and THEN tries to just blame it on poly as an orientation (oh no poor baby they were just oppressed) they are doubly worthless as a human being (but I'm not ayrt).

Selfish assholes who aren't worth your time or attention are going to come in every single flavor. You're just being a nimrod.

Don't speak for me, thanks. I'm a grown man and have self control. I'm not going to cheat on my partner because I'm bi. That's horseshit. That's an EXCUSE, not a valid reason. I'm bi and monogamous, and I've never had a problem being both at the same time.

A strap-on/fleshlight cannot compare to the real thing.

Speak for yourself.

--Mac

now you're trying to justify cheating?

please be a troll...

But my definition of polyamorous is different from yours, as is my definition of bisexual.

You don't get to just...decide what words mean. They have actual definitions. And your definitions of "bisexual" and "polyamorous" are both wrong s2s.

I can provide examples of bisexuals who turned unfaithful because they craved cock/cunt because they identify as bisexual, not because they don't care about the genitals, but because they like both sets of genitals.

Er. Are you quite sure it wasn't just an excuse to cheat? because people come up with all kinds of excuses to cheat, and they often revolve around the person they're cheating with providing something their actual SO does not - be it some kind of emotional support, some kind of sexytime variation, some kind of personality dynamic, etc. It's still cheating and it's still shitty.

Honey, your "definitions" are merely perceptions built from negative representations and/or experiences, mostly with people who are assholes. They having no basis in legitimate definitions.

Anybody who cheats is an asshole, regardless of their sexual preference/s and ability to maintain multiple relationships. Infidelity is infidelity, hands-down, no discussion, including in the context of polyamoury.

If your own prejudice gets in the way of being involved with someone who identifies as either poly or bi, fine, that's your problem. But stop smearing these falsehoods around.

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