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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-10 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3019 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3019 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[CSI: NY]


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[All Creatures Great and Small]


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[Peter Dinklage]


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[The Flash]


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[Arrow, Felicity Smoak]


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[Shin Megami Tensei]


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(Kirby Buckets)


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(Pretty Little Liars)


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[Fantasia]


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27. [ SPOILERS for Rage of Bahamut: Genesis ]



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30. [ WARNING for suicide ]



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31. [ WARNING for rape ]





















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #431.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Repeat

(Anonymous) 2015-04-10 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
First, it's usually not the suffering people with a rape kink like. It's about the force and intensity and power.

Second, think of all the things you have a kink for (not necessarily sexual) that you like but would never do IRL and get off your high horse.

Re: Repeat

(Anonymous) 2015-04-10 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
It doesn't sound like they're on a high horse. In fact, it sounds like they feel bad about their discomfort with the kink.
blitzwing: ([magi] ali baba)

Re: Repeat

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-04-11 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
"What's wrong with them that they don't have any compassion"

That doesn't sound like discomfort. It sounds like they're making the (wrong) assumption that a person must lack compassion if they have a certain kink.

They're saying they distrust people and have friend-dumped 3 people because of a (wrong) conclusion they jumped to. If that's not high-horsing it...

Re: Repeat

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 07:05 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

They say in their secret that they know that people who have this kink don't necessarily want to do it in real life and "all that stuff", but that they can't help but be disturbed by and think badly of people with the kink anyways. They know that it's wrong to assume that people with that kink lack compassion. They know all the rational reasons why people have this kink, but no matter how many times they list them off to themselves they're still bothered. That's not a happy or self-satisfied state of mind.

I suppose it might sound like high-horsing if you're coming from a place of defensiveness.
blitzwing: ([magi] Jafar)

Re: Repeat

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-04-11 11:57 am (UTC)(link)
No, they don't say they know that it's wrong to assume people with that kink lack compassion--they say they know it's wrong to assume people with that kink will actually do it irl.

Hence the word "but" being in there after they say "I don't think they want to do it in real life."

"I don't think they want to do it in real life BUT why don't these people have any compassion?"

Re: Repeat

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 06:50 am (UTC)(link)
What if some of us have this kink that works either way, as victim or perpetrator? Do you dump us, or try to tolerate us?