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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-10 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3019 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3019 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Re: I JUDGE YOU

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
Most? My mom, definitely. She's always right, no matter what the subject is, and anyone who disagrees with her is wrong. On things that are a matter of opinion, there's no such thing as a differing opinion, someone is just "wrong" if they disagree with her. But on things that actually have a right answer or can be proven true or false, if someone points out that she's objectively wrong about something, then suddenly it's "just her opinion" and they're being judgmental for thinking everyone should agree with them (because apparently facts don't exist).

She's worst when it comes to gender and sexual orientation stuff. Men and women are "supposed" to behave in certain ways (men should be macho, aggressive, sexist alpha male douchebags, and women should be delicate flowers that need to be protected by their husbands because they can't take care of themselves). Sex is absolutely the #1 most important thing in the world, and if spouses have different sex drives, the one with the higher drive is 100% justified in cheating if the other one doesn't have sex with them as much as they want, drugging your partner to have sex with them (which she's done) is also totally acceptable (which, last time I checked, was rape).

Transgender people are always referred to by the pronouns of their birth sex no matter how they identify, bisexuality isn't real and it just means you're a sex addict, masculine gay men and feminine lesbians don't exist (although according to her, in same sex relationships one person is always "the man" and one is "the woman", which doesn't make sense to me), m/m or f/f sex isn't actually sex because they're "doing it wrong", anyone who says anything is "better than sex" is "doing it wrong", she thinks asexual people might exist but they're "sick" and "unhealthy" and if they're in a relationship with a "normal" person, THEY should be the one to compromise and have as much sex as the other person wants (rather than, I don't know, splitting up so they can both find people they're compatible with and actually being happy, the "sick", "abnormal" one should be uncomfortable/unhappy).

Sex is the only way to show your spouse you love them, and (romantic) love without sex doesn't exist. Platonic love doesn't exist, either, and although familial love does exist, you should always put people you're in a sexual relationship with above your family. But even though sex is the greatest, most important thing in the world it's only acceptable if it's between opposite sex people (otherwise it "doesn't count as sex") who don't have to be married but have to be "in love" (because she doesn't really believe you can have sex with someone you don't love, but if you somehow do you're a bad person and a slut).

My first boyfriend breaking up with me only sucked because I had sex with him, according to her (the reality was that he was an asshole and it was more of a pride thing than anything else because I'd wanted to break up with him for quite awhile before that but didn't want to be mean...that sounds petty, I know, but I was young and immature) and she assumed that I must've had sex with my next boyfriend because if I hadn't I wouldn't be as upset as I was about the relationship ending (we actually never had sex, but it was a much deeper relationship than the first one and I was way more upset about it ending, even though I was the one to end things, but that's a long story). Basically no matter how much of an emotional connection you have with someone, it doesn't count if there's no sex happening.

(There's so much sex-related stuff because she's constantly complaining about my dad's lack of interest in it...I feel like he's probably asexual. I definitely am and the shit she says hurts so much. :()

Oh, and ALL children need to be indoctrinated with religion because that's the only way they'll be moral adults, and you can't be a good person if you weren't raised religious.

There's so much other shit I could go on and on but I'll stop here.

I sometimes really wonder why I still talk to her.

Least judgmental? I don't even know. My dad's not NEARLY as bad as my mom is but he still makes comments from time to time where I'm like "REALLY?!"