[ SECRET POST #3019 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3019 ⌋

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Comments

I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

Who is the most judgmental person you know? What's something awful that you've seen them say or do?

To even it out, who is the most non-judgmental person you know? What's something awesome that you've seen them do or that they taught you?

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[kaijinscendre]

My mom is super judgmental. My dad is super laid back and not. That is probably why they got divorced.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

Mine are likewise, but they've been married for 40+ years and going strong!

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

My dad.

My uncle.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

Most judgmental? Anon. Ugh they have so many stupid things they judge people for. What a dick.

Least judgmental. Anon. They're really laid back and chill and taught me to not worry and just do my own thing. Awesome person!

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[morieris]

Who is the most judgmental person you know?

Probably myself to be honest.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[dethtoll]

Definitely my mom. But she insists I'm more judgmental than her because I don't agree with the crazy shit she says.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

Chardmonster, for a given value of 'know'

Even expending 'know' to include 'tangentially aware of' she still qualifies

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

Herpy too.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

Jesus, man. They're not even that judgmental. Just forthright people with opinions.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

You must not meet a lot of people.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[sarillia]

My brother's girlfriend is probably the most judgmental person. Any time I describe her I feel like people must think I'm exaggerating because she sounds like a caricature of a conservative Christian.

I don't know about the least judgmental. Maybe my dad. My mom is a teacher and she'll sometimes come home with stories about why a kid was punished and he'll defend them a lot.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[diet_poison]

now I'm curious about your brother's girlfriend

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[cloud_riven]

My mom. There's a lot of things, but there is one that particularly worries me as it relates to me. She equates lesbian, gay, and bisexual people akin to animals after being told that her assumption that even the animals don't swing it is wrong. When she's found a particularly nasty coworker haranguing her, she'll wonder if the obsession is because they're gay; then proceeds to go on a tirade about how disgusting and invasive it is if a woman from work thinks of her that way.

I've been hinting pretty hard this year about myself, and gauging her reactions and how we talk, so hopefully I can actually come out to her at some point in my life without springing it on her.

Least judgemental person I know is my old boss from volunteering. Dude is the most based and approachable person I'll never be, but if there's one thing I can try to take away is not to take it personally when someone shares a thought I disagree with, and even see it from their pov. Especially when it comes to advocating, you aren't going to get far by shouting them down.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[solticisekf]

I'm not sure I grok other's judgementness, so idk. I've noticed that teachers can be pretty judgy. And people who're kinda effortlessy succesful? Like someone who's never faced weight problems judges fat/skinny people.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

Most judgmental: A friend who I used to be close to.

Least judgmental: Either my lead at work or my best friend.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

Sadly, my oldest friend/my mother's best friend. They...basically do the "If you don't share my opinion YOU ARE WRONG!" thing about a *lot*. Admittedly, idk how much they do this with other people [though I from what they've said, it's a pretty fair amount], but they're particularly bad with me. To the point they've actually "told" me what "my" opinion is a couple times.

The most awful thing: That they hope everyone whose upper class/upper middle class gets murdered, with a very, very ecstatic look on her face.

The most non-judgmental? I honestly don't know. I tend to surround myself with really chill folks, so...-shrugs-

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[diet_poison]

I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO TELL ME WHAT MY OWN THOUGHTS ARE.

RAEG.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

I don't really know many (openly) judgemental people, but my grandmother has become more and more judgemental as she's gotten older and her memory worsens. Like, how my cousin came out as queer about five or so years ago, and she seemed fine with it then. She seems to have forgotten about it though, as a couple of months back, it came up that he had a boyfriend, whereupon she expressed her disgusts and couldn't believe he was gay.

I also lived with her for a couple of months when she was ill, and it really lessened my opinion of her as she seemed to just get more judgemental by each passing day :/

My dad was super disappointed and surprised when he heard as he really didn't think that about her.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[kallanda_lee]

Honestly? Potentially my parents. They can be very judgmental and have grown more bitter with age..

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[nightscale]

My uncle, he's getting worse the older he gets and likes to pull my mother into his way of thinking. I do love the guy but sometimes I just want him to shut up.

As for least judgmental either my dad or brother, they're both very laid back and generally chill about what other people do with their lives.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[insanenoodlyguy]

My mom found religion a bit after her divorce and got super this way for a while, though she got much better.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[caerbannog]

This 'friend' I'm distancing from. She insists I'm not gay. Right

Most non judgemental is this real nice fella from work. Just so easy going.

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

Most? My mom, definitely. She's always right, no matter what the subject is, and anyone who disagrees with her is wrong. On things that are a matter of opinion, there's no such thing as a differing opinion, someone is just "wrong" if they disagree with her. But on things that actually have a right answer or can be proven true or false, if someone points out that she's objectively wrong about something, then suddenly it's "just her opinion" and they're being judgmental for thinking everyone should agree with them (because apparently facts don't exist).

She's worst when it comes to gender and sexual orientation stuff. Men and women are "supposed" to behave in certain ways (men should be macho, aggressive, sexist alpha male douchebags, and women should be delicate flowers that need to be protected by their husbands because they can't take care of themselves). Sex is absolutely the #1 most important thing in the world, and if spouses have different sex drives, the one with the higher drive is 100% justified in cheating if the other one doesn't have sex with them as much as they want, drugging your partner to have sex with them (which she's done) is also totally acceptable (which, last time I checked, was rape).

Transgender people are always referred to by the pronouns of their birth sex no matter how they identify, bisexuality isn't real and it just means you're a sex addict, masculine gay men and feminine lesbians don't exist (although according to her, in same sex relationships one person is always "the man" and one is "the woman", which doesn't make sense to me), m/m or f/f sex isn't actually sex because they're "doing it wrong", anyone who says anything is "better than sex" is "doing it wrong", she thinks asexual people might exist but they're "sick" and "unhealthy" and if they're in a relationship with a "normal" person, THEY should be the one to compromise and have as much sex as the other person wants (rather than, I don't know, splitting up so they can both find people they're compatible with and actually being happy, the "sick", "abnormal" one should be uncomfortable/unhappy).

Sex is the only way to show your spouse you love them, and (romantic) love without sex doesn't exist. Platonic love doesn't exist, either, and although familial love does exist, you should always put people you're in a sexual relationship with above your family. But even though sex is the greatest, most important thing in the world it's only acceptable if it's between opposite sex people (otherwise it "doesn't count as sex") who don't have to be married but have to be "in love" (because she doesn't really believe you can have sex with someone you don't love, but if you somehow do you're a bad person and a slut).

My first boyfriend breaking up with me only sucked because I had sex with him, according to her (the reality was that he was an asshole and it was more of a pride thing than anything else because I'd wanted to break up with him for quite awhile before that but didn't want to be mean...that sounds petty, I know, but I was young and immature) and she assumed that I must've had sex with my next boyfriend because if I hadn't I wouldn't be as upset as I was about the relationship ending (we actually never had sex, but it was a much deeper relationship than the first one and I was way more upset about it ending, even though I was the one to end things, but that's a long story). Basically no matter how much of an emotional connection you have with someone, it doesn't count if there's no sex happening.

(There's so much sex-related stuff because she's constantly complaining about my dad's lack of interest in it...I feel like he's probably asexual. I definitely am and the shit she says hurts so much. :()

Oh, and ALL children need to be indoctrinated with religion because that's the only way they'll be moral adults, and you can't be a good person if you weren't raised religious.

There's so much other shit I could go on and on but I'll stop here.

I sometimes really wonder why I still talk to her.

Least judgmental? I don't even know. My dad's not NEARLY as bad as my mom is but he still makes comments from time to time where I'm like "REALLY?!"

Re: I JUDGE YOU

[(Anonymous)]

ITT: People judging other people for being judgmental.