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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-14 07:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #3023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3023 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
Asexuality isn't an actual sexuality, it's just another special snowflake label, so don't worry.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think you tried at all.
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[personal profile] erinptah 2015-04-15 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
...okay, it's one thing to cry "special snowflake" on people who want a personalized orientation label for "I'm only attracted to brown-eyed people with a light bondage kink and no more than two piercings when Jupiter aligns with Mars," but how is it hard to understand "not attracted to anyone" as a thing? And what else would you expect people to call it?

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
Monk? Nun? Can't get laid and just wants to pretend it is a voluntary choice?

Take your pick from those three.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
Nope. That's celibacy. Try again, troll.
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[personal profile] erinptah 2015-04-15 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, choosing to be a monk or a nun is the same as being inherently uninterested in sex. The Ecstasy of Saint Teresa is totally chase.

What are you, a 16-year-old boy? Even for people who aren't asexual, there are more paths in life than just "trying to get laid and succeeding" and "trying to get laid and failing."

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
Can't get laid and just wants to pretend it is a voluntary choice?

Actually, I usually have the opposite problem, in that I get hit on often enough by people who have trouble taking 'no' for an answer. The world would be a much nicer place if people found me as thoroughly uninteresting as I find them.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 07:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Same. I have the misfortune of being attractive to people and most just don't get that "I'm asexual" doesn't mean "you need to try harder".

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

I don't usually mention the asexual part, just keep explaining that I'm not interested in whatever particular person happens to be asking at the time. Most of the time I don't want to get into a debate, which I think trying to explain asexuality would cause, I just want them to go away. So I say 'no' until they do, or I have to make a hasty escape.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
this comment makes me feel like I'm back on fandomsecrets in 2008
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[personal profile] dahli 2015-04-15 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
Ur just jelly you can't be labeled as special snowflakey as the rest of us.