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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-14 07:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #3023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3023 ⌋

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OP

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
I don't feel like age really matters, either, but I know it does to some people.

No, I'm not hitting on her (I'm not into girls), we're not even discussing porn, and I do not know her exact age either, but I know she's in college and has a car & driver's licence.
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Re: OP

[personal profile] silverr 2015-04-15 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
While I do agree with the nonny who said that deception isn't a good basis for a friendship, I think that, in general, not disclosing a detail that's not important (your hair color, your birthday, your grandmother's maiden name) isn't a breaking point if the question hasn't come up.

But it does sound like you're feeling the weird, OP, and so for your own happiness I'd say, "Hey, I know it hasn't come up but I just wanted to let you know I'm 32. I hope that doesn't make you uncomfortable, but I really felt I needed to let you know."

If they're a good person/good friend then they'll pretty much respond with something like "Pish, such a silly thing to worry about!"
Edited 2015-04-15 01:01 (UTC)