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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-14 07:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #3023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3023 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Should I disclose my age, race and sexual orientation to every potential internet friend I meet? They're just squeeing about fandom shit. No one needs to know anyone's personal information for that.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
But it must be more than just that. OP says's that younger friend knows some personal data on her. And OP seems invested in it "I haven't made a new friend in years, online or off". It seems more than just "fandom shit" to me.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
OP seems to think this friendship is going somewhere. I.e. is more than just squeeing about fandom shit, and may involve much more personal conversations and interactions later (as you do with friends as opposed to just random people you know from the internet).

OP and this person seem to have been talking for a while. OP seems pretty invested in this as a friendship in more than just fandom terms, so yes, that involves a deeper level of disclosure.

I'm guessing people you'd call actual friends know all those things about you. That's the point of friendship vs. vague acquaintanceship.