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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-15 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3034 ]


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lb_lee: A happy little brain with a bandage on it, enclosed within a circle with the words LB Lee. (Default)

This is actually a pretty personal subject for me.

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-04-16 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
Why would I judge an adult for having a baby? And if a child is having a baby, my reaction is ALARM, not disdain.

We come from a family with lots of teen pregnancy, rape, and incest. Having a child early (especially when you're a child yourself under the control of an incestuous family) is much more complicated than, "SHOULDA KEPT YOUR LEGS TOGETHER." Especially since in our state, kids need PERMISSION from their parents to have an abortion.

I have a sneaking suspicion that one teen pregnancy in our family may have been incest based. She gave the child up for adoption, got disowned, and from what I hear became a drug addict. But she was just making bad choices, right?

The other teen pregnancy I know about involved one of our cousins, and far as I know had no incest involved. Their lives were totally torn apart, despite them both trying to do the right thing. Now they have their lives together, three kids, and far as I know are pretty happy and together, despite her health problems. I'm really proud of all they achieved, and I refuse to judge my cousin and his wife for doing the best they could in a really difficult situation. Especially when from all accounts, they turned out to be much better parents than the generations before them.

--Rogan

Re: This is actually a pretty personal subject for me.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-16 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
Hear, hear.
lb_lee: A happy little brain with a bandage on it, enclosed within a circle with the words LB Lee. (Default)

Re: This is actually a pretty personal subject for me.

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-04-16 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I have issues with a lot of the, "just keep your legs together!" rhetoric. I have whole canned rants about it, and abstinence only education in general. I know the "ghetto" troll was a troll, but no really, the whole "oh, that only happens to THOSE people" is part of the problem that helps keep it from getting solved.

--Rogan

Re: This is actually a pretty personal subject for me.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-16 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
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lb_lee: A happy little brain with a bandage on it, enclosed within a circle with the words LB Lee. (realitylolz)

Re: This is actually a pretty personal subject for me.

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-04-16 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
That's nice, dear.

--Miranda