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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-15 06:55 pm

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Queer people with phobic religious parents

(Anonymous) 2015-04-16 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
Did they ever get over it? How long did it take, if they did?

Wondering whether it's worth holding out hope, or cutting losses now.

Re: Queer people with phobic religious parents

(Anonymous) 2015-04-16 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly it depends on their specific religious beliefs, and how harsh they are. There isn't really a "all religiously queer phobic parents do this" because it varies so wildly. Some just disapprove, some will send their children to "cure camps", some will abuse or kick out their child.

Parents certainly can come around, but it still depends on their personal brand of prejudice.
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Re: Queer people with phobic religious parents

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-04-16 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
My folks weren't religious, but honestly, you can't control their feelings. They may become okay with you over time, or they may not. You can, however, work on yours, and try to decide what YOU'RE okay with, what you can live with and what you can't.

It's a really tricky thing, and I'm sorry you're going through it.

--Rogan
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Re: Queer people with phobic religious parents

[personal profile] philstar22 2015-04-16 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
Mine don't know yet. I've only had a tiny bit of dating experience and it has all been men. If/when I start dating a girl, I'll have that discussion with them. Also, I still get a bit of money from them. So it just isn't a good idea right now.