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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-17 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #3026 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3026 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Time Team]


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(Transformers: Windblade)


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[Sesame Street]


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(Transformers: More than Meets the Eye)


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(Transformers: Robots in Disguise 2015)


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16. [ SPOILERS for Aldnoah.Zero ]



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17. [ SPOILERS for Classic Who ]



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18. [ SPOILERS for Inuyasha ]



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19. [ WARNING for abuse, suicide ]



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20. [ WARNING for abuse ]












Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #432.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-17 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
OP, you shouldn't feel bad about this. You have just made a breakthrough in your own mental health, but you are still vulnerable. If your friend's depression is exhausting you as much as you say, then there us nothing wrong with taking a mental health break from the friendship. If you come back to the friendship and it's still draining, a phase-out might be in order. This isn't a reflection on the worthiness of being friends with your friend, this is about knowing your boundaries and exercising appropriate self-care.

Source: me, after having a huge destructive blow out with a fandom friend because we both had mental issues at the time which we weren't dealing with. Ignoring problems like these when you're not 100% mentally yourself doesn't end well for anyone.