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⌈ Secret Post #3027 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Rage Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I am super pissed that my fiancee doesn't want to show me he cares anymore.
He only seems to do what he wants.
Can't say he loves me or kiss me until I make the first move.
And he always masturbates over making love to me.
Any time we talk about it I get so many excuses I want to scream.
If I show I am upset he we apologize and keep reassuring he loves me.
But it sure don't feel that way.
I don't know why I put up with this crap anymore.

Re: Rage Thread

[(Anonymous)]

Is this a person you really want to marry? :/

Re: Rage Thread

[(Anonymous)]

anon. :( if it's really as bad as that, to warrant your choice of words, then dump the asshole. or, well, you could insist on counseling, because nobody should go into a marriage that resentful and already affection/sex-incompatible. but if he'll give you the same excuses and apologies for even asking to go to couples counseling, that's a lost cause.

Re: Rage Thread

[(Anonymous)]

Please don't marry him nonny :(

Re: Rage Thread

[(Anonymous)]

Anon, I really would think about why you do put up with that crap and if the relationship is worth it.

Re: Rage Thread

[(Anonymous)]

Don't marry this guy. Marriage does not make these things better, and it often makes them worse because people get complacent. (I say this even while happily married for years.) If he doesn't give a shit about your needs or feelings now, he won't start after you're married. Imagine ten or twenty more years of this. Is this what you want?

Re: Rage Thread

[(Anonymous)]

He treats you this way because it works for him, and because you stick around and put up with it. You stay because on some level, this works for you. Oh sure, you you don't like it, but you don't dislike it enough to DTMF. Which is why he keeps doing what he's doing. He knows your continued presence in his life is easily bought with little to no effort on his part.

I'm sorry, and I hope you know you deserve better.

Re: Rage Thread

[quirkytizzy]

I could have used this advice 5 years ago. Good way of putting it.