[ SECRET POST #3027 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3027 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Shaving is not "changing the way you look," it's a minor hygiene alteration. It'd be more akin to asking your partner to brush their teeth more often because they're prone to bad breath otherwise - it may not be an issue at all outside of the relationship, but if it's a turnoff for your partner, it's something that's probably worth addressing.

You're being ridiculously hyperbolic about this entire thing. There's nothing bad or wrong about asking a partner to make minor changes to make the overall relationship happier. Mature adults are able to recognize that they aren't perfect and that sometimes it's worth compromising on something small for the sake of something else that's more important.

[(Anonymous)]

Body hair isn't unhygienic.

[(Anonymous)]

Taking care of it is part of a hygiene routine, and on some people it can be a hygiene issue because it can trap BO if you sweat a lot. If I don't shave on a regular basis, my pits will sweat like crazy and stink no matter how much deodorant I use. Not even clinical strength deodorant is enough to stop it.

If I do shave, it's not a problem at all.

[(Anonymous)]

And other people find that they have fewer BO issues when they allow their armpit hair to grow out. Which experience cancels out the other?

It's disingenuous to try and re-frame this as a hygiene issue. The thread you so helpfully jumped into was about cosmetic changes to the body, not about hygiene.

[blitzwing]

Mature adults are able to recognize that they aren't perfect

Body hair isn't a character flaw.