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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-18 02:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3027 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3027 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-04-21 07:53 am (UTC)(link)
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I'm glad you are happy about it, but I tend to see much more things like this (http://www.stthomas.edu/news/reflecting-on-airplane-day/ ) where they aren't outright hating being adopted but are more like "I get sad on my birthday because I wonder about my parents. And I hate that I have lost my culture" kind of thing. And I totally understand why someone adopted would feel sad about having been given up for adoption. Or would feel resentment that their family isn't of their culture. (For me, it wouldn't be adopting from an Asian country, as in this case, but adopting a minority, as there are far more of them in the system of my city.) Like I babysit a girl who was adopted (and always knew she was adopted, with "airplane day" and the like). And her parents were older, but were really nice (almost too nice at times) and I could tell that they really loved her and wanted what was best for her. But she spent so much of her time resentful of being adopted. She spent so much time wishing she could find her birth mother. She frequently told her mother that she was not her "real mother". And other things of that nature. And I see things like that and just don't think it is for me. Even though I once thought it was.