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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-23 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3032 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3032 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Ioan Gruffudd/Horatio Hornblower]


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03.
[ebooks tree]


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04.
[Horrible Histories]


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05.
[Burn Notice]


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06.
[Bradley Cooper]


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08.
[Grimm]


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09.
[Assassin's Creed: UNITY]


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10. [POSSIBLE WARNING for suicide]


[David Walliams]


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11.
[Game of Thrones]


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12.
[Nina Dobrev]


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[The Avengers]


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15.
[Fire Emblem: Awakening]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 019 secrets from Secret Submission Post #433.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Social etiquette

(Anonymous) 2015-04-24 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
Re: "you can talk to me"

Ugh, those people are just trying to wheedle something out of you that they already know you're reluctant to give. I'd just shrug and say, "Okay, thanks" or "If I feel like discussing it, I'll let you know" and then change the subject or walk away.
belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

Re: Social etiquette

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2015-04-24 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I just want it to stop.
I don't know if they think it's helpful and they're delusional, or if they're just being a nosy little shit.

Re: Social etiquette

(Anonymous) 2015-04-24 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
Some people like the feeling of power when they're someone's confidant. Calling them out on their nosiness can be pretty effective, especially if you're subtle. Sort of wrinkle your nose, look amused and slightly weirded out and say something like, "Huh, you are really eager to find out about other peoples' private business, aren't you."

If they don't take the hint, I'd try a firm "I don't want to talk about this and you're making it weird. Please cut it out." Turn it back on them. It's awkward, but they're the ones making it awkward.
belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

Re: Social etiquette

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2015-04-24 06:25 am (UTC)(link)
It could work. I'm so bad at being confrontational though.