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⌈ Secret Post #3033 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Kushiel's Legacy]

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[The Young Sherlock Holmes]

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[Blake's 7]

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[Doc Martin]

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07. http://i.imgur.com/XWQxPJy.jpg?2
[linked for close up shot of naked butt]

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[Disney]

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[Phantom of the Opera/Twilight]

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[Captain America]

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[Spec Ops: The Line]

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13. [SPOILERS for Final Fantasy XIV - A Realm Reborn]

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14. [SPOILERS for Star Wars: The Force Awakens (Episode VII)]

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15. [WARNING for incest]

[Folgers Coffee Commercial]

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16. [WARNING for suicide, emotional abuse]

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17. [WARNING for suicide]

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18. [WARNING for abusive parenting, domestic abuse]

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A friend was supposed to help me out on a project and she knew we had a deadline. Not only did she blow past that deadline, but she stopped answering my e-mails when I got in touch to see if she was all right. I was worried she had a family emergency because I honestly didn't think this person would screw me like this and leave me holding the bag.

A few days later, I remember to check her twitter feed and she's fine. There's no emergency, she's had plenty of time to tweet about going out clubbing and post photos of her kitties. She just didn't feel like telling me she hadn't finished her part of the project and was never going to. I was genuinely floored, because she always seemed very responsible.

We haven't spoken since because I don't know what to say to her and she's obviously determined to avoid acknowledging me in any way. I wonder if she's embarrassed, but you know, I don't care. It was rude and inconsiderate and I don't think I want to be friends with someone who doesn't even have the ovaries to tell you they screwed up and they're sorry.

I hate when people do that. I understand being embarrassed or feeling awkward, but is being lousy to people really the way to handle it?

I think often people say they'll do things, and mean it at the time - but as soon as they realize offering to do something = actually making a commitment to do that thing, they kind of hit a blank and it never happens. This is definitely one of the worst ways she could be handling it, though. :/

Having said that, if she hasn't acted like this before, I don't know that I'd completely cut her off. She may really just feel bad and not know what to say. That's JMO though.

What I don't get is that I wasn't angry, not initially. I was just concerned and a little worried that something had happened to her, because I didn't understand why she'd go all quiet all of a sudden.

As for cutting her off, I'm not sure it's entirely up to me. Once it became clear she was fine and had no computer problems or anything that prevented her from contacting me, I realized that she ignored my e-mails on purpose and I wasn't going to pester her further.

AYRT - Okay, I read the part about her ignoring your emails but somehow didn't fully absorb it. Yeah, that definitely makes a difference.

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