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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-24 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #3033 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3033 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Kushiel's Legacy]


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03.
[The Young Sherlock Holmes]


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04.
[Blake's 7]


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05.
[Doc Martin]


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07. http://i.imgur.com/XWQxPJy.jpg?2
[linked for close up shot of naked butt]


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08.
[Disney]


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10.
[Phantom of the Opera/Twilight]


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11.
[Captain America]


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12.
[Spec Ops: The Line]


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13. [SPOILERS for Final Fantasy XIV - A Realm Reborn]



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14. [SPOILERS for Star Wars: The Force Awakens (Episode VII)]



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15. [WARNING for incest]

[Folgers Coffee Commercial]


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16. [WARNING for suicide, emotional abuse]



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17. [WARNING for suicide]



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18. [WARNING for abusive parenting, domestic abuse]




















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #433.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Bitter little shit thread

(Anonymous) 2015-04-25 04:33 am (UTC)(link)
I have a severe chronic illness which tires me out very rapidly. I'm single, and a few years ago I went back to the country of my birth for the first time in over a decade. I stayed in an apartment belonging to my sister and brother-in-law. They were very welcoming but pushed me to do more than I could cope with. My health teetered towards a major crash. I told them I wasn't coping - on three separate occasions.

Then they put the apartment on the market - because they needed the money. I made a disastrous suggestion, that they hold fire for a few weeks, and I'd pay them the full market rental. Rage. The phone was slammed down on me. I spent a couple of days shaking in fear, then emailed an apologised; said I'd get out if they could give me just a couple of days to organise something else.

My sister sicc'ed her husband onto me; I got the most furiously self-righteous email you can imagine, telling me, among other things, how I should make a fulsome apology to her. (He'd had an affair a few years before, the hypocritical bastard.)

I phoned a friend and God bless her she was round within a couple of hours – walking miles across the fields, the public holiday traffic was appalling and she doesn't drive – and helped me clean the apartment and move out. I got somewhere else to stay close enough that I didn't have a health crash getting there and cheap enough that I could afford it. I was unbelievably lucky in that.

The sister has contacted me a couple of times since, once to demand money, once out of the blue when she came to my country. I gave the vicious snake the money and shut down all attempts at communication. I will never speak or communicate with her again: it isn't the first time she's done something of that magnitude to me, but it is the last.

The family, of course, periodically puts pressure on me to forgive, be the bigger person, etc, garbage garbage garbage. By which they mean “you're the weaker person here, suck it up.” Like fuckI will. I'll cut ties with all of them before I do that.