fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #3033 ]

⌈ Secret Post #3033 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Kushiel's Legacy]

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[The Young Sherlock Holmes]

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[Blake's 7]

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[Doc Martin]

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07. http://i.imgur.com/XWQxPJy.jpg?2
[linked for close up shot of naked butt]

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[Disney]

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[Phantom of the Opera/Twilight]

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[Captain America]

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[Spec Ops: The Line]

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13. [SPOILERS for Final Fantasy XIV - A Realm Reborn]

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14. [SPOILERS for Star Wars: The Force Awakens (Episode VII)]

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15. [WARNING for incest]

[Folgers Coffee Commercial]

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16. [WARNING for suicide, emotional abuse]

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17. [WARNING for suicide]

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18. [WARNING for abusive parenting, domestic abuse]

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Speaking as someone who is a switch and currently in a D/s relationship where I am the domme, yes to all of this. Someone announcing they're a dominant or dom right out the gate is pretty much a red flag for me, because of much the reason you've said. Excepting discussions about BDSM that come up naturally in learning more about what each other likes, or a specific "what are you into" type discussion. And dear gods if it's online and they insist on using capital letter D, or, gods, insists on calling themselves a Dominate, RUN.

Dominate makes me think of someone who laminates things in a very domineering way.

[ SECRET POST #3033 ]

Re: A lot of people into BDSM are horrible.

Re: A lot of people into BDSM are horrible.