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⌈ Secret Post #3035 ⌋

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Comments

Re: sempai notice me

[elaminator]

Maybe people do feel awkward about mentioning it? I know you said that didn't help, but honestly... for some people weight can be a sensitive subject and I wouldn't be surprised if they aren't sure if it's a 'safe' topic for you.

Then again I don't know how much weight you've lost (if it's say...ten pounds, that's great! but not nearly as noticeable as say...sixty) or how considerate the people around you are...

Hearing, "You look great!" is obviously nice, but I've had my weight loss mentioned in a few ways that hurt my feelings, so... if people start commenting on it, I hope they do so carefully!

(And congrats! Losing weight can be hard.)

Re: sempai notice me

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, that's fair.

It was just disheartening to hear two girls talking about another and how great and skinny she looked that very same day.

I went from 142 to 114. So it was a HUGE amount like 60 pounds but I guess I was a bit saddened that no one ever said anything.

But thanks for your support!

Re: sempai notice me

[(Anonymous)]

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*it wasn't a huge amount

Re: sempai notice me

[elaminator]

Ooo, 28 pounds is good! That takes a considerable amount of time and effort. (Especially considering the smaller you are, the harder it is to lose. Ugh, the last ten pounds are brutal.)

Anyway, do these people see you every day? I ask because if they do, it might be more difficult for them to notice the change. I know (at first) when I was losing weight, looking at myself in the mirror every day, it didn't feel like much was happening even though I was noticing the number change on the scale and in how different my clothes fit. If they were around the whole time they might not notice so much?

But also: are you wearing clothes that fit? (I.E. aren't a size or two too big for you?) That's important; even if the clothes are big, sometimes they can make you look larger than you actually are.