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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-01 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #3040 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3040 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Once Upon a Time]


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02.
[Tree of Savior]


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03.
[Disturbed's 'Indestructible']


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04.
[Whitechapel]


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06.
[Bill Bailey]


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07.
[Total War: Warhammer]


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09.
[Morph]


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10.
[Harry Potter]


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11.
[FFXIV, RuPaul's Drag Race]


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12.
[Monstrous Regiment by Terry Pratchett]


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13. [SPOILERS for Nightcrawler, Gone Girl]



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14. [SPOILERS for Devil Survivor]



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15. [SPOILERS for Age of Ultron]



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16. [SPOILERS for Broadchurch]



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17. [WARNING for incest, abuse, suicide, and probably necrophilia]

[Sankarea]


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18. [WARNING for abuse]

[Steven Universe]










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(Anonymous) 2015-05-02 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
The stereotype of abused children becoming abusive parents is probably rooted in class bigotry anyway

It definitely wouldn't be fair to say that ALL or even the vast majority of victims of child abuse grow up to be abusers, but unfortunately the cycle of abuse is very real and children who grow up in abusive homes are at least more likely to become violent later in life than children who didn't (there have been a lot of case studies and such written about it, but here's a site that has most of the statistics in one place: http://www.safehorizon.org/page/child-abuse-facts-56.html). A lot of people grow up to become like their parents, for better or worse. It's a very real and very sad thing that happens, and it would be a disservice to pretend that it's just some myth that's perpetuated by bigots and ignore the issue.

(Anonymous) 2015-05-02 05:39 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, but it's also something that can be addressed and confronted, even with very simple techniques like teaching parents to talk to their babies. It's not a myth but nor is it destiny.