[ SECRET POST #3045 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3045 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Urgh, I hate this whole concept of silent consent, because not everyone is equipped to challenge hate speech or hateful behavior or whatever. If you're cripplingly shy, socially anxious, or bad with words, or you don't know the person and what they're capable of. There are obvious ones like language barriers, but sometimes.. you just can't do it. I'm fine in text, but I am terrible at expressing myself vocally, and the idea of telling off a stranger no matter how much of a piece of shit I think they are-- that makes my blood run cold just thinking about it. I have only recently progressed to a point that I can order for myself at a restaurant. But if I don't tell a co-worker/neighbor/stranger on the bus that what they said or did just now was offensive, I am part of the problem and consenting to their hate? It is just not that simple. I burn with the need to stand up for what I believe in, but I fear challenging someone's world view as strongly as I fear spiders, airplanes, heights. The silent consent thing is bullshit, because I'm not the only one who isn't capable of even gently admonishing a stranger, an acquaintance, a friend. Yeah, if some guy at a party is telling sexist jokes, or balking at racism, there are bound to be a few people who just don't care, or even agree with him. And there are people who disagree, but don't feel like making waves. But there are a TON of people who absolutely freeze up when it comes to confrontation, and I don't think they should be lumped into the same category as the selfish and bigoted.

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It sounds like you've come along way, anon. You should be proud. Standing up to opinionated people can be tough for anyone. I hope you'll one day get to the point where it's a breeze for you. If not, well, I think most people understand that there are always some people who can't do casual conflict, and it's not a moral failing.