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⌈ Secret Post #3046 ⌋

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[Beyonce Knowles]

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[Blake's 7]

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[Spec Ops: The Line]

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[Cell Block Tango]

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[Mortal Kombat]

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[Captain America/Kingsman: The Secret Service]

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[Blake's 7/"Orbit"]

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[Henry V]

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I was just thinking about how when I was watching Frozen, Do You Want to Build a Snowman had me in tears. Then I realized it was making me think of my own older sister, who went from being one of my best friends to distancing herself.

(In her case, she'd been in a bad relationship, and I think she needed to... rediscover herself or something. We're closer now, but it was hard, and I think Anna's feelings of abandonment just hit me.)

Have a seat next to me anon, I felt so much the same way. It's the top song in the film that's always a struggle to watch because of it. In fact, I still struggle with heavy abandonment issues.

Although in my case, we were never close again. =\ So I just had to move on.

Honestly, watching Frozen made me have a better idea how our brother may have felt as our mental health declined. We were DEFINITELY the Elsa in the family, and some of those scenes of Anna banging on her door, trying to make her come out was really painfully familiar to me.

--Rogan

That song gets to me too, though for slightly different reasons. My older brother became distant and reclusive after our parents didn't react well to him coming out as gay. Being very young at the time, my parents kept it a secret from me so I had no idea why my best friend suddenly shut me out and no longer wanted to spend time with us. We were distant for almost as many years as Elsa and Anna were and while we communicate more now, I don't think we'll ever be close again.

What made everything suck so much was that I tried reaching out to him constantly partially because I missed him and partially as a cry for help, as the both of us were suffering from abuse at the hands of our parents. I cried myself to sleep a lot those days. Things got way more icky when I got older and realized I wasn't straight either.

So yeah, that song fucks me up pretty bad. I don't feel any bitterness toward my brother for becoming distant and I understand why he became like that, but man would it have been nice to have him open the door and let me in when I knocked...

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