[ SECRET POST #3047 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3047 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Suzanne from Orange is the New Black]


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[Soul Caliber V]


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(Rick and Morty)


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[Love The Way You Lie - Eminem feat. Rihanna]


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[Bones]


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11. [SPOILERS for Grimm]
[WARNING for rape]



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12. [WARNING for rape]

[Eddie Murphy, Bill Cosby]


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13. [WARNING for incest/underage]



























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Comments

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

You've got to put your foot down, then. If you want to go for a walk, tell her you're going for a walk and will be back by a certain time and then go. Don't hang around or get into a discussion and try to reason with her about why it's safe, that's a delaying tactic. Just kiss her on the cheek, tell her you love her and you'll see her when you get back. Get into the habit of running useful errands. ("I'm going to the store, do you need anything?)

Trust me when I say that by giving in, you're only reinforcing her worldview that the world is dangerous and she's doing the Right Thing by protecting you from it. You're going to have to train (for lack of a better word) your mother to accept that this is a normal activity and reasonably safe and the more times you demonstrate that you can go out and nothing happened to you, the more normal it will seem to her.

Re: Rant/whine/advice/etc

[(Anonymous)]

This is good advice in principle, but I suspect it may be too late to train Mother. She has a way of winning arguments by refusing to do something that she needs to do for her health (like taking her meds), on the ground that nobody listens to her, so it doesn't matter if she lives or dies.