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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-09 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #3048 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3048 ⌋

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Re: Ever have an identity that you've since changed or "matured" out of?

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-05-09 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmm...I haven't really went through any major 'phases'. I'm still geeky (that will probably never change), still awkward (but hopefully less so now), I like to think I'm more open-minded (not that I was ever truly into religion, and I was never homophobic despite all odds, but I was ignorant in a lot of ways, and had to figure things out for myself) and calm (not saying I never get angry, that's impossible, but I have an easier time controlling my temper and letting things go these days).

I guess the one major thing is my sexuality. Or, well...it hasn't changed, but I'm more aware of it now. For a long, long time I thought myself straight, and never even considered I could be anything else. If I found a girl hot it was just me appreciating their beauty, I wasn't really attracted to them. (Granted, I never had a problem with other gay or bi people, but I was in denial about my own feelings.) Growing up where I did I was scared to be different so I just brushed it off and ignored it until I was finally comfortable admitting to myself that I'm bi.