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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-10 03:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3049 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3049 ⌋

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Re: lol no, sorry

[personal profile] purpleseas 2015-05-10 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I know it's hard. I've been through it. You will eventually stop giving a fuck and/or age out of your "childbearing years," and they'll give up on you. That's just the way they are. People who are pressuring you to have kids don't know how else to behave around you because they honestly care about you and don't understand that what makes them happy and fulfilled is not what would make you happy and fulfilled. They may also seriously worry about who will take care of you in the future, despite the fact that it's not the most reliable safety net ever. Or they regret having children themselves and need to drag someone else into their misery. They see you as having gotten away with something and want to see you brought to justice, lol. That's all it is. It'll pass a lot faster if you learn to blow it off and don't form an identity around it. Trolling them also helps sometimes.