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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-10 03:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3049 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3049 ⌋

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Re: TMI thread

(Anonymous) 2015-05-11 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
Does sex sound unpleasant no matter who is having it, or only when you try to picture yourself having it? Because if you think all sex is gross, or boring, or just vaguely icky, that's maybe different with being uncomfortable with the idea of having sex yourself. But it doesn't sound like you have the kind of self-loathing that makes some people embarrassed/ashamed to have sex, you just don't want it. And you should definitely have a long talk with the boyfriend before he becomes your fiancé. You mentioned counseling-- take him with you, if he's willing. And don't go to a counselor expecting they'll talk you out of your discomfort and make you "normal." A good counselor wouldn't try to convince you to do something you're uncomfortable with. Best of luck.