[ SECRET POST #3049 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3049 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

It's the "childfree role model" thing. Childfree isn't just a state of being, it's a stance. So people are annoyed because it comes across like OP is assuming he holds a stance he doesn't hold. He's also said he eventually wants kids, so it's kind of a losing proposition to get attached to him in this way.

[sidewinder]

Exactly. If you want childfree role models, go to communities and places for people who are dedicated to being childfree. There are plenty of them. Don't place your expectations and hopes on others.

And also accept that some people are human and may change their mind at some point. I know, that is like the most hated thing to ever say to a childfree person: Oh you'll change you're mind when you get older. And yeah, it's fucking rude and offensive to say. But people are human and that does also happen - just as some people know for sure they won't have kids from an early age and never ever change their mind. Bit it's just like people may realize they are gay later in life, or want to be in a het relationship with someone when they were previously sure they were gay. We are allowed to change what we want in life. We are allowed to want different things at different stages and that doesn't make us fakers or somehow betrayers.