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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-13 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3052 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3050 ⌋

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[Falcon Densetsu/F-Zero GP Legends]


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(Stephen Paul Manderson aka Professor Green, Never Mind the Buzzcocks)


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[Elysium]


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Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Men and boys and sexual abuse, especially when done by women. Like the story where a teacher had sex with her sixth grade student, and some people were applauding the boy like he hadn't just been raped by an adult.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
That one really gets to me, especially because there are so many women who get away with molesting children and committing sexual assault just because everyone assumes they can't or won't do it.

Also what pisses me off is there's a contingent of feminists who refuse to believe that women can do those kinds of things. They believe only men can do them, and if a woman does it, it's only ever because she's under the influence of a man. Which is insulting as hell, because first of all, okay, women aren't fully fledged people, then? They're perfect goddesses? Isn't that pedestal crap one of the things about patriarchy we're trying to fight? And what's more, women are so weak-minded that a man can get them to do anything? Like, seriously, guys, that's what you're implying, so great job with your pro-womannness.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Even worse because many of those people were women, who you would think would be a bit more sensitive.

I saw a post where these women on Tumblr (which again, should be sensitive times a billion) were applauding this woman for raping a man at gunpoint.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Ugh, that is terrifying. In my experience, both men and women equally turn away or scorn male rape victims (who are raped by women), both believing it can't happen. One guy told me he'd high-five his 10-year-old son if he "fucked" the teacher. And I've heard too often by women the sentiment of "well if he gets an erection, it's not rape".

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
A lot of men have that sentiment too.

But honestly...your friend's a bad father, straight up. Fuck him.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-14 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
He was definitely not my friend. I only spoke with this guy once in a bar as a stranger with a group of people. If he had been my friend, that would've been an instant friendship breaker, and I frankly got the urge to call the police for negligent parenting just at the remark. Disgusting.
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Re: Double standards

[personal profile] dethtoll 2015-05-14 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
I ended up sending a former HS classmate to banned camp on Facebook because he basically said a local teacher fucking a couple HS football players was doing them a favor and when some female friends joined me in calling him out he called them a bunch of sexist names (said nothing to me of course.)

Haven't spoken to him since. I don't have to put up with anyone who still listens to ICP in the 2010s, anyway.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
It doesn't help that in many places women can't legally be charged with rape, even of a minor.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Really? Where?

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
The UK is one place. Women can only be charged with the less severe crime of sexual assault.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
That's kind of shocking.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-14 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
Really?! Hah. That gives me something to toss at my English friends when they make fun of my American health care issues.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-14 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
Just make sure you don't live in a state where women can't be charged with rape first.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Lots of places for different reasons. Like anywhere that defines rape as penetration with a penis, for example

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I know in India a woman can't be charged with rape, and I know it used to be that a woman couldn't be charged with rape of a man in the UK. The latter might have changed, though.

Also, until recently in a lot of places in the US, it was only rape if penetration happened. So if a woman did anything with a woman's dick against his will, but didn't stick anything up his ass, she wouldn't be considered to have raped him. It might still be that way in some states.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope, UK is still the same. Wah wah wah.

And yes, that is true for much of the US.

Re: Double standards

(Anonymous) 2015-05-14 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
I think most states have amended their constitutions to include women as capable of rape, but true, not all of them.