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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-13 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3052 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3050 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Falcon Densetsu/F-Zero GP Legends]


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(Stephen Paul Manderson aka Professor Green, Never Mind the Buzzcocks)


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[Elysium]


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[Jeremy Renner]















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Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2015-05-13 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't want to break up with my SO because he's my bff and we've been together for ten years almost, but we never have sex, he constantly needs reassurance I don't hate him, he gets mad if I ask for sex when he's not in the mood "because I do it because I hate him" and his insecurities are just really wearing on my nerves lately. I'm trying to be a decent partner but it just gets so fucking annoying to have to reassure him every ten minutes (not even joking) or deal with hurt feelings because I had the audacity to ask for sex when he's feeling bad. He's been having health issues for a month and I keep trying to convince him to go to the doctor but he won't and I'm just like... whatever. I give up. I don't even know how to deal anymore so I'm just whatever. I mean, It's not like I'm a good partner, really so I don't really have too much room to complain (I cheated on him, but it was just sex and I had no intention of leaving my partner because I love him but I have a high libido and I hadn't been getting any and it just happened). Anyway, enjoy my word vomit because I guess I just had to get that out, lol.
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Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

[personal profile] dancing_clown 2015-05-13 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
BFF or not, sounds like it's time to break up. Neither of you seem happy.
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Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2015-05-14 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
what you want is clearly what you are no longer getting in this relationship. You should probably come clean on your way out but whatever else it really sounds like it's time to go.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2015-05-14 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Don't feel too bad. Your SO needs help and is refusing to get help. He'd rather you remain trapped in an unhappy relationship with no sex and tons of guilt whenever you try to stop being a doormat. I hope you'll find the strength to leave him, because whatever this guy might say, he does not love you or he wouldn't think this was an okay position to keep you in.