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[ SECRET POST #3052 ]

⌈ Secret Post #3050 ⌋

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[Falcon Densetsu/F-Zero GP Legends]

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(Stephen Paul Manderson aka Professor Green, Never Mind the Buzzcocks)

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[Elysium]

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[Jeremy Renner]

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Anything you want to let out today?

I blew off going to an event tonight to study for some major exams that are stressing me out.

but then when I got home, I just watched Youtube videos for hours. I don't even know. lol

That was the majority of my undergraduate career. Skip having fun because you're stressed about school, fail to actually get any work done because studying made me remember how stressed I was.

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I gave myself a charlie horse while masturbating last night.

I'm sure you can see why this is a secret.

I strain my muscles all the time because I end up trying to hold my hips at just the right angle to get the right pressure on the right spot. I don't know if I'm weird or if it's just that no one talks about it.

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otakugal15 - 2015-05-14 22:22 (UTC) - Expand

Why did you name your horse Charlie? And how did you train him? Asking for a friend.

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I have a feeling fapping injuries are more common than anyone thinks.

Also fapping accidents of the "shit I was going at it so hard I knocked the laptop off the bed" variety.

I hate that "innocent until proven guilty only applies to court cases!" has become such a popular retort, as if the court of public opinion is a much more noble entity.

SA
I mean, I get having formed an opinion based on available information, but its shitty to dismiss people who haven't with such a trite, shut-down phrase.

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(Anonymous) - 2015-05-13 23:28 (UTC) - Expand

That's dumb. I frankly don't feel comfortable making opinions on ANY criminal case, even high profile or serious ones, because I have no idea and none of us but the people in the trial have any idea.

Granted, I think there's a difference between assuming innocence, and just being skeptical of assuming guilt.

I've only ever seen it used in response to people who insist that "innocent until proven guilty" means that you can't believe and say that the person did it if they haven't been found guilty in court.

I'd probably be annoyed too if I heard it used in other contexts, but it is useful in that one way.

My guy is considerably less interested in sex than I am. He's happy to come play about half the time if I bring it up, but very rarely will he bring it up himself. Doesn't help that I'm naturally disinclined to ask for anything, let alone sex.

We've talked about this. There's still plenty of mutual attraction, the sex is great, we just have different baseline libidos, and we've been together for enough years that the novelty of getting laid again has worn off.

I 100% intellectually know that this is biology and has nothing to do with me, but after years of hearing the stereotype that it's always the man trying to convince the woman to have sex, it's been hard working through the emotional insecurities.

Ugh, that is rough. Stereotypes get in your head and mess you up, and they're ALWAYS stupid.

Sometimes I don't eat for the day to punish myself for failing at life. It's not about the weight, I know I'm underweight and I'd actually really love to gain some. It just feels nice to be mean to myself, I don't know.

A more productive way to punish yourself might be to work out.

I'm not even joking. If it's punishment you want plus weight gain, go exert yourself and in the long run it's probably healthier for you.

"I don't want to"- well isn't it about punishment? If not, what is it really about?

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So as a form of self harm basically.

I used to do that with sleep instead of food. My chronic fatigue that has developed since feels like some kind of ironic punishment for doing that.

I hope you find a healthier way to deal with that feeling of failure.

I just mentioned to my gf over skype that I accidentally spilled wax from my candle on myself. She seemed worried and asked if I accidentally burned myself.

I didn't, but I have been intentionally burning myself for the past week because of stress, and was in fact doing it not 10 minutes before bumping my candle. Probably shouldn't mention that huh... (Though I don't know how I'll explain all the match sized welts when I see her this weekend.)

In my experience trying to hide something like that just makes you more stressed and often ends up triggering the same problem even more. Is she someone you could talk to about being stressed and finding a better way to deal with it? Or is there someone else like that?

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sarillia - 2015-05-13 23:57 (UTC) - Expand

I'm a bit scared of dogs right now.

Only right now? Did something happen?

I don't want to break up with my SO because he's my bff and we've been together for ten years almost, but we never have sex, he constantly needs reassurance I don't hate him, he gets mad if I ask for sex when he's not in the mood "because I do it because I hate him" and his insecurities are just really wearing on my nerves lately. I'm trying to be a decent partner but it just gets so fucking annoying to have to reassure him every ten minutes (not even joking) or deal with hurt feelings because I had the audacity to ask for sex when he's feeling bad. He's been having health issues for a month and I keep trying to convince him to go to the doctor but he won't and I'm just like... whatever. I give up. I don't even know how to deal anymore so I'm just whatever. I mean, It's not like I'm a good partner, really so I don't really have too much room to complain (I cheated on him, but it was just sex and I had no intention of leaving my partner because I love him but I have a high libido and I hadn't been getting any and it just happened). Anyway, enjoy my word vomit because I guess I just had to get that out, lol.

BFF or not, sounds like it's time to break up. Neither of you seem happy.

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I'm getting major mixed vibes from my childhood guy friend/crush.

We tried long distance dating, but he flaked out on me one too many times, so I told him to piss off because he strung me along with every promise under the sun.

But then my mom visited him with his mom on the way to a funeral and he gave her seasons 1-3 of his GoT Blu-Rays to give to me.

On one hand- fuckin' SCORE
On the other- what the fuck dude it's been six months!

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