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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-13 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3052 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3050 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Falcon Densetsu/F-Zero GP Legends]


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(Stephen Paul Manderson aka Professor Green, Never Mind the Buzzcocks)


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[Elysium]


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[Jeremy Renner]















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Re: I've just realized I'm bisexual and (rant about sexuality, so very sorry)

[personal profile] cloud_riven 2015-05-14 12:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, it's all good. You're figuring yourself out (again), making sense of it, and not everyone gets to land on a neat and easy label. And even when you reach a conclusion, it may be it turns out you have exceptions, stipulations, and moments where it's not so firm you think you should have completely disregarded the answer you came to.

Again, it's all good. Whether you get to your perfect label, your peace, or you're no longer giving a single fuck, it's ultimately your own to define. You sound level-headed about introspection anyway imo, but here's some cheering you on over the internet :)

"yaoi being massively popular here and some fans can come off as very fetishizing..."

ahaahaha oh god I love making fun of teenagers. At the same time I have to remember things like that are good intentions coming from a ridiculously misguided place. Best you can hope for is that those types come back down to reality and engage with real affected people, and realise conflating idealisation and fantasy in fiction for them is not the same. Learning process and all.

Also, "it can always be worse" is a lazy dismissal. I find "it can be always be better" to hit the right optimistic slap to the back of the head ♥

Re: I've just realized I'm bisexual and (rant about sexuality, so very sorry)

(Anonymous) 2015-05-14 06:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Why must human sexuality be so confusing. Why must my sexuality be so confusing.

I do hope that they would grow up, I was once a yaoi fangirl too but came to realize how bad it can be. But for now, all the squeeing regardless of place and idealizing and pretending that lesbians don't exsist can be really annoying. At least it's getting better, I remember when I was younger there would be made up stories of dramatic gay love (that I believed was real but upon remembering were obviously fake) and bragging about turning their brother gay. It doesn't help that they are everywhere.

Thanks for your encouragement!