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Comments

Re: Advice Column

[(Anonymous)]

Engaged, and my fiance wants a nice ceremony and celebration for our wedding. Thing is the only family I have around I wouldn't invite to my wedding, and aside from a few close friends I few like I wouldn't have anyone to invite. I like my coworkers, but I not enough to invite them.
I feel like this is an awkward situation for me, and I don't know what to do.

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[(Anonymous)]

Can you find a middle ground? Maybe have a little ceremony with just closest people invited (in your case, your friends, and for him, maybe a couple family members like the parents, and close friends).

And then after, you can have a dance or whatever sort of celebration, and then he can invite whoever and it won't feel so awkward if your numbers don't match?

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[herpymcderp]

You don't have to have a ceremony. You could instead do just kind of a celebratory after-party if the idea is to have friends and family involved in the day. That would make the whole thing less awkward when it comes to seating arrangements and unequal attendees from either side.

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[(Anonymous)]

I don't want to be mean here, but if you cannot discuss this with your fiance, then you shouldn't get married. Marriage is going to have involve a LOT of problems you'll need to work out between the two of you. It's best to start now.

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[flipthefrog.livejournal.com]

Yeah, talk to your fiance, dude. They might not even know that you're flipping out about this.

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[tabaqui]

Um...why is it awkward? You invite the people you want to celebrate this with, and they invite *their* people. If they have fifty and you have five, then - that's the way it goes. It's only awkward if you invite people you don't give a damn about and are forced to interact with them.

Plus, also, talk to your fiance.

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[(Anonymous)]

You beat me to it. I was scratching my head wondering why this was such a problem, too.

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[diet_poison]

yeah I was thinking this.

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[(Anonymous)]

Isn't this something you're better off discussing with your fiance? I mean you guys are going to have to talk about wedding planning anyway, right? Tell him your situation and why it makes you feel awkward, and then ask him what he thinks. If you can't talk about the stuff that bothers you with the man you're going to marry, who can you talk to??