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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-17 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3056 ]


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Re: Asexual with a mom who thinks it's "sick and fucked up"...feeling sad

(Anonymous) 2015-05-17 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Came here to say pretty much this.

OP, you're taking her comments as a blanket judgement about asexuality when in reality her complaints are deeply, deeply personal in relation to how insecure she feels. Despite how it sounds, she's lashing out at what she feels she isn't getting from your father, not at asexuality, and not at you. I know how hard it is to not take the things she says personally, but she's projecting so hard right now that it really, truly isn't about you and your feelings. She's too wrapped up in her own on this subject to even notice yours.