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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-17 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3056 ]


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Re: Asexual with a mom who thinks it's "sick and fucked up"...feeling sad

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-05-17 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
There is nothing wrong with you. I know it can be difficult to feel that way when you have people around you telling you otherwise, but seriously, sex isn't that important. (Well, to some people it is which is also fine, but you can live a perfectly normal and fulfilling life without it.)

It sounds like your mom wants different things than your dad and if that's making her unhappy she should talk it out with him (Or a therapist). It's an unfortunate position she's put you in, and I wouldn't blame you if you told her you didn't want to get in the middle of it. I hope she eventually catches a clue and stops bringing her problems to you. (And also being so hostile and rude about people being different than her, but like others have said, she's probably projecting.)

OP

(Anonymous) 2015-05-18 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. :)

They've been to different therapists before but it didn't seem to work. I've also told her I don't want to be involved but she tells me anyway. And she can't handle people being different than her, if they're not just like her they're wrong. :(

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2015-05-18 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
DA

So you tell her that her talking to you about this makes you feel that sex is disgusting.

It might at least get her to stop dumping on you.