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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-17 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3056 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3056 ⌋

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Re: Advice Column

(Anonymous) 2015-05-18 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. This is probably the most concrete advice I've ever gotten on these things. A therapist I visit (not because of social anxiety per se, although it comes up) usually just nods or goes "But that really isn't the case, is it?" which is... not really helpful? At least to me. I know I'm being irrational most of the time, but they just keep coming.

I've contacted a friend, who I know has experience on these things and who is not part of the RP group (I really don't want them to know, which isn't odd I hope) and we talked it over and she made me see positive sides to being loud, which was what was bothering me tonight it seems. She has said I can come talk to her whenever I get these.

I will definitely try to keep these tips in mind (I should probably write them down). I mean, you occasionally see them in those lists that go around tumblr or whatever, but it feels better when it's coming from a person and not just masterlist of dealing with things or whatever. My sincere thanks, again.
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Re: Advice Column

[personal profile] a_potato 2015-05-18 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
That's great that you have a friend like that who you can talk to.

You're welcome, anon, and good luck! If you're comfortable, let me know how you're doing with it in the future!