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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-17 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3056 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3056 ⌋

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Re: Advice Column

(Anonymous) 2015-05-18 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
If he's vocal about it, then I'd say he's not worth the trouble. There's a difference between not identifying with a group and simply agreeing to disagree and being in your face about why what you strongly believe in is wrong. If he can't respect your beliefs enough to at least be civil about letting you have them in peace, then he doesn't respect you. Let's take ideologies out of this for a second. Imagine if he spoke vocally against anything else you cherished, and made you feel bad about caring about it? If he knows how much this means to you and chooses to act like this then he's an obnoxious child who wants to be the loudest voice in the room and will talk over you instead of actually listening and compromising with you.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't waste any more of your time with this one.

Re: Advice Column

(Anonymous) 2015-05-18 08:45 am (UTC)(link)
Doesn't the same go for OP?

Do you think she should shut the hell up about her feminism for the sake of the relationship?

Re: Advice Column

(Anonymous) 2015-05-18 07:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Touched a nerve there,anon?

Re: Advice Column

(Anonymous) 2015-05-18 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)
No?

Just pointing out that one party should not be judged for voicing their opinions if the other isn't.

Re: Advice Column

(Anonymous) 2015-05-19 05:16 am (UTC)(link)
Sure anon, keep telling yourself that.