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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-17 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3056 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3056 ⌋

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Re: Asexual with a mom who thinks it's "sick and fucked up"...feeling sad

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-05-18 07:36 am (UTC)(link)
...from OP's comments here I DEFINITELY think their mom was aware of their dad's low sex drive going in.

And, uh, actually, everyone needs to express their expectations and desires before marriage, not just those you deem to be "normal". And yes it's statistically normal to want sex in a marriage but even within that? there's a looooot of room for difference. How much sex? How often? How vanilla or kinky? Who initates/leads/dominates? etc. etc. etc. Those can all be dealbreakers even for two people who are sexual.
Edited 2015-05-18 07:38 (UTC)