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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-17 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3056 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3056 ⌋

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Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2015-05-18 03:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry I spoke harshly of you, and I agree, it's not at all fair on you--both because it's cruel of her to insult and judge you (even if, as you say, she's doing it unwittingly because she's judging a group you belong to), and because it really, really is not right for a parent to use her child as her therapist.

I did get the impression that at least some of the other posters thought her distress about her situation--which is presumably the source of her animadversions about asexuals--was "ridiculous and narrow-minded," and that she was selfish for wanting more sex than your father was prepared to give. But with the new information you've given, it does sound as if she went into the marriage knowing that there was an issue, and she just expected your dad to change for her because...well, because.